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Pain is Inevitable (You Are Going To Hurt Others)

Life has a way of showing how much we are not in control. We are human beings, flawed and imperfect. We make mistakes often. We judge too harshly and we judge too quickly. Sometimes, we judge too late. Due to our imperfections and shortcomings, we are going to hurt others. Based on your level of healing and maturity, you will hurt others either intentionally or unintentionally.  Unintentionally hurting others is apart of life.  That doesn't mean you are NOT healed or in your process. You just may have said something innocently and wind up triggering someone.  Most unintentional pain happens even when you are healing. It comes from the words you use that are not so much focused on a particular person or the actions you take from a pure and/or protective place.  That place may be for justice and righteousness, or even just for enjoyment and laughter.  Intentional hurting of others is words, expression or action im which your focus is on the person you are acting towards or talking to