Your tongue establishes your healing
Why it's so hard for you to hear correction.
Why we cant control ourselves when other speak truth to us?
Words are literal wavelengths of activation or deactivation.
Words cut deep
The process of healing is very simple yet complex because it's going to put you in a spot to cut deep. In order to be healed from a thing, theres a surgical procedure that must take place.
Some procedures are more painful so anesthesia has to be applied.
A removal of some sort
Or a replacement of something.
The recovery is hard.
If you do the wrong thing, you can disrupt the healing process and have to start from a new place of pain.
When it comes to healing and deliverance it is the exact same way.
Saying you are ok isnt going to automatically lead you to heal the broken areas of your life.
Saying what is truly in your heart is what's going to release the wavelength that will activate healing your life. The tongue cuts deep. The tongue can not be tamed. God uses the tongue as a form of salvation to many. When you have spoken in an unknown tongue that wasn't taught to you. That is a miracle within itself. You can find a perfect scripture in the bible about how God manifested Himself by the tongue in Acts Chapter 2.
The tongue is a vehicle of release and it is up to you to decide which areas of release you desire. If you want freedom. You need to activate it in your life. God knows when you are truly surrendered. It's not about what it looks like it's about what He hears.
**Out the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks***
O generation of vipers, how can ye, being evil, speak good things? for out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh.
Matthew 12:34 KJV
If God doesn't hear you say a thing. It isn't established yet.
You can say you want to be healed
You can say you want to be married
You can say you want a happy family
But desiring something and decreeing a thing are two totally different things.
Establish that you are married
Established that have a happy family
Establish that you are healed. And with the things you establish by faith. Work on how you treat people in the process. Forgive people quickly.
How do you forgive ? Establish it. Speak the wavelength of forgiveness against the person you are hurt by. You may think because you shove your feeling to the back of your mind that forgiveness is your portion. What you have done was push unforgiveness to the back of your mind and you subconsciously say and do negative things to people acting as if you are simply expressing your feelings when in reality you are walking in offense. Be honest with yourself and establish forgiveness by stating out what you know you need to do.
Why is it so hard?
Because the tongue is untamed. It cuts deep. The truth will hurt but it provides freedom when you allow the wavelength to hit you and you embrace it.
It is hard to admit things. And with doing so you must use your words to recognize your intentionality. It is hard to say things because our hearts have hardened from the pain people have inflicited on us.
You have an addiction to porn and you want freedom from it.
You haven't had the best parenting and you're still angry about your parents to the point you feel you can hate her or him.
It is hard to admit that you are promiscuous because you've been raped or molested.
It is hard to admit that you killed some people warring after a gang or even in the military and you want freedom from night terrors.
One thing that isn't hard to admit is the issues you have with people who have trespassed against you or have hurt you. We can let the rivers flow out of our bellies when we are offended and angry at someone.
But when it is time for us to operate as God requires. Our mouths become locked up. We point the finger, we blame others for our feelings, we blame others for our words, and we blame God. We never get to a point of surrender because we are walking in unforgiveness, rage and hurt. Most of the time our feelings are valid, yet our posture is completely wrong. The posture of our heart is what makes our tongue is untamed.
When Jesus was getting ready to be crucified, he had just been denied 3 times by His day one friend. He had been sold off by another in His circle. The government washed their hands with Him. And He postured His heart by SAYING that not His will be done but God's will be done. Jesus was very vulnerable because He even asked for God to remove that cup from Him. The cup was the portion Jesus had to endure and take in. He was afraid, but He chose life regardless of how it felt. You can find all this is in Luke 22: 42, to read the words He spoke.
Jesus postured His heart to be full of humility, He wanted freedom from hate, hurt, anger, and wrath even in the midst of his hurt and betrayal.
It is hard to dig deep and admit the things you know you want but seem unworthy and ashamed to talk about it.
It is hard to have those conversations with people you feel have hurt you.
Those things feel like you are attacking yourself. In reality your words are cutting deep to take you into surgery.
That is why most people go to psychiatrists and counselors because they can help you dig deep. I can tell you that God's counseling is free and available 24/7. If you don't want to feel alone, then go and get the attention you need. The reason I say feel, is because you're never alone. God is always with you and He'll accompany you to the counselor or psychiatrist.
The tongue has to be used and there's no other way around it.
Read these scriptures:
James 3:3, 5-10 KJV
Behold, we put bits in the horses' mouths, that they may obey us; and we turn about their whole body. Even so the tongue is a little member, and boasteth great things. Behold, how great a matter a little fire kindleth! And the tongue is a fire, a world of iniquity: so is the tongue among our members, that it defileth the whole body, and setteth on fire the course of nature; and it is set on fire of hell. For every kind of beasts, and of birds, and of serpents, and of things in the sea, is tamed, and hath been tamed of mankind: But the tongue can no man tame; it is an unruly evil, full of deadly poison. Therewith bless we God, even the Father; and therewith curse we men, which are made after the similitude of God. Out of the same mouth proceedeth blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be.
Curses and blessing are the wavelengths we choose. Choose this day which will be your portion. Choose wisdom and establish healing by using your tongue to create the wavelengths you need to saturate your atmosphere so God can finally do what He's been wanting to do. Which is give you freedom.
It hurts Him to see you hurt. He's the one doing the work. You just need to open your mouth. Don't let the enemy feed you what to say and don't let the enemy muzzle you into not saying what you should.
As I've stated earlier, you can disrupt your healing process. Be intentional about it. Protect your healing. Be aware and watchful of who and what you entertain in the season of your healing. There's things that will trigger you and that's normal. Just be careful that it is not a set back. Don't let YOU be your own set back. Be patient with yourself and God. Healing is your portion.